{"id":3253,"date":"2016-07-17T12:18:06","date_gmt":"2016-07-17T17:18:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/?p=3253"},"modified":"2016-07-17T12:18:06","modified_gmt":"2016-07-17T17:18:06","slug":"transitioning-into-a-new-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/?p=3253","title":{"rendered":"Transitioning into a new life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The last few weeks have been emotionally bumpy but I&#8217;ve tried to stay busy.\u00a0 Focusing on individual tasks has been a good distraction and there are MOUNTAINS of tasks needing attention.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve also re-discovered the joy of cleaning (!).\u00a0 I love that I can scrub away years of grime and things stay clean.\u00a0 DH was a mindlessly sloppy person and I had given up on cleaning behind him.\u00a0 It was one of those battles I quit fighting.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m also enjoying re-discovering my independence.\u00a0 Yes, I can saw lumber, mow grass, change light bulbs, cook on the grill, burn trash, grocery shop and all the other chores DH had normally done.\u00a0 I&#8217;m proud to be finding my &#8216;roar&#8217; after all these years.<\/p>\n<p>I was worried I might fall into poor eating<a href=\"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/English-muffins.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-3254\" src=\"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/English-muffins.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURES\" width=\"400\" height=\"235\" \/><\/a> habits as I&#8217;ve witnessed so many of my single peers do.\u00a0 Yes, I&#8217;ve eaten a couple of &#8216;convenience meals&#8217; but still prefer cooking (and eating) from scratch.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve learned to make half the quantity and often have enough for multiple meals.\u00a0 Because I enjoy baking, this week (for the first time), I made English muffins.\u00a0 I love them and am thrilled to find they are so cheap and easy to make.\u00a0 They&#8217;re freezable too!<\/p>\n<p>Today, I will bake several versions of oatmeal cookies.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t care to eat oatmeal for breakfast but this will be a good way to use the new carton of DH&#8217;s oatmeal taking up space in the pantry and have sweet treats for Jacob when he visits in the coming days.\u00a0 I will also make pita bread for quick lunches I know we&#8217;ll enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve continued working on the String Pyramids quilt.\u00a0 I was originally making it for DH but now it&#8217;s for his empty bed.\u00a0 It&#8217;s pretty and keeps my hands busy as I relax in the evenings.<\/p>\n<p>Shirl<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The last few weeks have been emotionally bumpy but I&#8217;ve tried to stay busy.\u00a0 Focusing on individual tasks has been a good distraction and there are MOUNTAINS of tasks needing attention.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve also re-discovered the joy of cleaning (!).\u00a0 I love that I can scrub away years of grime and things stay clean.\u00a0 DH was<span class=\"more-excerpt\"><a class=\"more-excerpt-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/?p=3253\"> (continue reading&#8230;)  <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,11,14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3253"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3253"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3253\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3265,"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3253\/revisions\/3265"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3253"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3253"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shirlsu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3253"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}